I'm not quite sure how, but somehow I got in the habit of making a batch of cupcakes to go with my cake. Sometimes I go all out for my cupcakes too and sometimes I take the "easy" way out and laminate pictures to stick on the cupcakes. It is an easy way to incorporate some of the more intricate special requests. The kids don't mind in the least that pictures aren't edible. In fact, I wash them off and they play with them, tape them to the windows, and whatever else it is boys can find to do with them.
My cakes and cupcakes:
Mickey Mouse
Ice Cream Cone cupcakes
Elmo
Elmo cupcake
Ben 10 Ultimate Alien
Woody from Toy Story
Oooh... the Aliens from Toy Story
Captain America's Shield
All of Radiator Springs showed up for this party!
A little more lamination than I usually like, but it was 2 weeks after I had a baby!
The sand was peanut butter icing!!
Diego (chocolate-covered gummy worm eyebrows,
chocolate-covered tortilla chip hair and peanut butter icing!)